Dah ready ke?
http://www.gua.com.my/LoveRelationship/LoveLifeSexDetail.aspx?ArticleID=1574&Page=3
http://kawansejati.ee.itb.ac.id/node/15169
http://serikasih.blogspot.com/2009/01/ciri-ciri-isteri-solehah.html
Dah baca dah link yg aku bagi sume tu? Bukan senang urusan rumahtangga ni kan?
Lelebih lagi kalo ada isu “status” or dlm erti kata lain “antara dua darjat” mcm link yg 1st skali tu. Iman kene kuat, hati kene tabah. Aku pon kengkadang tatau, sape yg lebih perit. Sipolan yg berkemampuan or sipolan yg tidak berkemampuan?
Yg berkemampuan dah biasa dpt apa yg die slalue hajatkan, kalo tak biasa dpt pon die tau mesti ada jalan punya la nak get things his/her way. Tapi bila dijodohkan dgn seseorang yg tidak berkemampuan, nanti timbul plak memcm keraguan e.g
- bole ke dia ni adapt dgn dunia baru yg serba kekurangan
- bahagiakah dia nanti
- nape die tak pilih org yg sama taraf dgn dia
- sape yg support sape skang ni
it is harder if the gurl yg menjadi “sipolan yg berkemampuan” coz secara umumnya, lelaki la yg sepatutnya jadi tunggak keluarga tu kan..tapi, yela pandangan org. As much as the gurl ckp oh saya menerima bakal suami saya dgn seadanya, we will work things out through all ordeals together, forever..sehidup semati la katakan..but well, masyarakat will always be pessimistic.
Apetah lagi if “sipolan yg tak berkemampuan” plak is the bakal suami..nanti timbul plak isu cam si bakal suami plak takyah bekeje keras..yela dah sume dah ada depan mata e.g bakal isteri dah ada kete beso ke, umah beso ke, jawatan tinggi ke..
Nape la masyarakat Asia especially yg slalue ada mindset camni huh?
Tgk je mat salleh, jarang kite tgk movie ke drama ke ape ke pasal masalah status yg tahpape ni yg menggugat relationship dorang or marriage dorang..it’s always i love u, u love me, let’s get married and they live happily ever after [hopefully] tp kalo drama org Asia tak kesah la cite Hindustan 3 jam ke, drama Cina ke, Cerekarama ke ape ke MESTI ada sangkut paut dgn hal ni. Urgh.
Sampai bebila both sipolan ni takkan rasa dia layak utk each other. Sipolan yg berkemampuan ni kang kene sentiasa face situation yang org akan label die ni kaya la, anak org senang la, org bandar la, anak manja la etc etc etc walaupun jokingly tp mesti ada punya la..yg tak berkemampuan tu lagi la mesti asyik rendah diri je pk aku ni miskin, sape la aku di mata dia, family aku tak cam family dia..camne la aku nak bahagiakan dia dgn apa yg aku ada skang..
Pompuan zaman skang pon dasat2 jugak. Very d berkaliber, very d aggresive in climbing the career path, some mungkin tak memilih pasangan tp some mesti akan ckp “ahh aku dah camni, kene la dpt laki yg better dari aku. At least dah ada kete sebijik, tak pon umah..mana leh aku lebeh dari dia. Die kan laki pastu hantaran plg ciput mesti 10K, takleh lesser than dat”
Just imagine if CT Nurhaliza kawin dgn org biasa instead of Dato K..camne agaknya pandangan masyarakat? Sedangkan die kawin dgn Dato K pon mulut org tak abeh pokpek2 dgn memcm gossip kan..huhu termasuk aku la tu haha.
All i can say is KEBAHAGIAAN DATANG DARI HATI despite whatever background that you are from. Hantaran less than 10K ka 100K ka kalo hangpa berdua sebagai suami isteri tak tunaikan tanggungjawap hangpa dgn betui (mcm link 2 and 3 aku bagi tu), hancus gak rumahtangga tu..betui dak? [note to myself gak ni]
tade tujuan sebenarnya aku update post ni, its not pointing to my relationship or to others, just some expressions of mind coz aku pon tak kawin lagi, tatau lagi how my marriage will turn out.
papehal pon, aku slalue pegang prinsip ni HIDUP INI INDAH BAGI ORG YG TABAH..so bersabarlah dlm menghadapi dugaan. Amin.
From My Heart – part 2
To those who have commented in my previous drama queen entry (refer to I need help posting), thanks a lot for allowing me to show a bit of my tantrums here.
It’s awkward u see, as usually the sole victim on having to tolerate with my drama queen tantrums has always been her. And then I would get a virtual slap from her and things would turn out fine later. Vice versa. Haha but she is more of a drama queen than me, I have a more I-dun-give-a-damn attitude but when I flipped, I will flip like mad huhu.
I received this sms 2 days ago from her :
Pd td kene wat star jump 70x, squatjump 20x, situp 20x, star jump tah bape kali smp dorang puas ati. pastu merangkak 50m bwh matahari terik and now gi campsite yg org xleh reach me
She is at some camping site somewhere in Malaysia with no network coverage. That’s the only thing I know, but i feel like as though she is at the moon! huhu, coz I have to wait for some transmission to be available from her side baru bleh communicate hahah. Even my sms sent last night is still not delivered. Sigh 
Wanna know something? Last Friday on her last day of work, we had lunch together and look what she gave me!
i told u she has this love for proverbs and quotes kan? haa tgk hadiah yg die bagi pon sama..hehe
inside this balang kueh raya, there are 100 lil pieces of quotes that will cheer up anybody’s day. So whenever I feel down or misses her, I would just need to pick one of these cute lil sunflowers and read the quotes huhu..
tadaa..this is one of the quotes that i picked up. Nice huh..i like this quote.
and lastly, after 11 years, we had our first photo together 
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But anyhow, yesterday I was on sick leave. I had a very bad migraine attack, thus I spent half of the day at home, just lazing around. In the afternoon, my legs were getting itchy to get out from the house. I really wanted to pamper myself on that day. I checked my wallet, I had RM200 in hand so I was thinking whether to :
- iron my hair – just because I felt like it and I’m bored of my ekor itik hair. Hehe my hair is shoulder length but layered, so biasala kes ekor itik ni sgt merimaskan.
- buy contact lenses – walaupun tak reti pakai and takut nak pakai, demi tanak nampak rabun sgt on the BIG day, sanggup jugak aku turunkan ego ni nak try pakai
- go for a facial – yer saya tau korang sume dah nasihat kat bwh suh manjakan diri kan?
What now? What next?
I’m typing this entry out from the new Google Chrome. Besar sgt la window die, tak sesuai utk surfing/blogging/chatting during office hours..senang org nak nampak heheh..dah minimise half of the window pon still nampak beso gedebaq. Takpela, ni lunch hour pon..nak act busy pon malas, tekak dah loya. ada 6 1/2 jam lagi before berbuka..huhu.
We went to the Matta Fair last weekend. Yer, kami mmg sangat rajin la pegi benda2 camni. As expected, jam packed with people despite the heavy downpour. Including us of course. Camne la selsema aku nak baik, ujan2 pon dok redah lagi kuar sana sini hehe degil namanya tu. Ada ke Mr Fiance bleh ckp “mcm org nak ngandung je u ni tak bebaik lagi flu” Like hello. Ok, so not true ye.
Anyways, tujuan kami di Matta Fair. Ooh ye..untuk mencarik tempat sejuk dan damai yg membolehkan kami utk conceive anak a.s.a.p sempena honeymoon kami hahaha. That sounds so corny and desperate and geli ok. Tempat sejuk tu betul coz mmg dari duluuuu lagi sejak atiku sudah decide YUP he is the one aku mmg nak bwk die pegi Australia. Yer, mmg betul bacaan anda. Saya yang nak bawa dia pegi sana, bukan die nak bawak saya. Nak pegi UK mahal sgt, like so way over the budget eventho deepdown UK masih dihatikuuu..ooh Londonn! and after stepping foot in Sydney and Perth, I have fallen in love with Australia (to the extend aku dah terdetik nak migrate ok haha). Kitorang saje je nak survey harga and the promotion in case we can try our luck but sadly we can’t because the promotion is for travel period for this year and plg lewat pon March 09. Aku tak kawin lagi daaa time tu. So kene la tunggu the next Matta Fair.
Tp tu la, i cannot decide where to go. Gold Coast? Perth? Melbourne? Sydney?
Gold Coast – it reminds me a lot of our own Genting Highlands and mcm tak sesuwei je utk honeymooning.
Perth - have been there, fallen in love with it. The flight ticket is the cheapest, within our budget. Laid back town, friendly people. Mild climate. Dah abeh sightseeing bleh spend the rest of d day dlm bilik (sgt sesuai dgn tema conceiving haha). Skali tgk period daa..langsung xleh wat pape. kui kui kui.
Melbourne – haven’t been there but it’s a city that is..well less historic, less cultural, less scenery except if we go to the outskirts of Melbourne, yes mende tu sume ada. Tp nak kluar from the city sure costs a lot. It is sure an adventure for the both of us coz aku yg nak bwk die pon sure terkial2 gak..haha. But the flight ticket is more costly .
Sydney – I suffered the worst jetlag of my life when I went here a few years back. Gile teruk ar, couldn’t cope with the timezone lepas tu asyik hop on hop off the boat makes the situation worse. It is an active city, just like KL. There are quite a number of places to go to but it could be costly, for the obvious reasons coz it’s one of the main cities in Australia. No point shopping in the malls, can’t afford it. Can only shop at the Haymarket area for local souveniers.
Ntahla..tatau la how eh? I gotta make up my mind before the next Matta Fair comes. Kalo pegi Gold Coast/Perth bleh naik AirasiaX. If pegi Melbourne/Sydney kene go by MAS for sure. We had planned to go to Krabi/Phuket before since it’s cheaper but with the bombing and all, ko nak bagi aku RM0 for the air fare pon aku tanak. Rugi la tempat camni. Dah cukup lawa and affordable tapi rakyat buat hal pulak..Aiyoo pening. Skali pk, pegi Beijing pon ok gak kan. Join the Muslim tour..sungguh bersopan santun gitu.
While waiting for the time comes, kene berusaha lagi dgn lebeh keras with our kepek business nak kumpul duit. Raya orders ni pon dah bikin kami pening dah with the last minute orders. We already told our customers to provide the orders by the 1st week of puasa or earlier but tak ramai yang buat, baru skang dtg orders menimbun2…lepas tu plak our supplier’s pekerja Indon pun cabut la plak..tau la nak cuti raya pon setel la keje hang tu dulu..dah dorang dah short of manpower. Tak pepasal xleh terima anymore additional order. Aihh pening, pening..next weekend dah kene start distribute dah the ordered kepeks..tu pun satu hal lagi tu, kete tatau muat ke tak muat. Mr Fiance said kalo susah sgt pakai je la lori mcm kat bawah ni..pastu nama company iss…….is ape eh? Kepek Enterprise! huhu sure klako gile if ever we will need to use this lorry nak deliver kepek..haha sweeettt!
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When bakal menantu meets bakal mertua
I’m back from my weekend trip to Penang! I haven’t gone back in ages and what made the trip more meaningful is that I brought along Mr Fiance together with me. It was his first time to Penang, so he is ecstatic, I am ecstatic, my bro and family too was ecstatic hehe.
First day : 15/08/08
Every month on the 15th marks our monthly anniversary together, so last Friday was our 2 year 5 months anniversary. Dah 2thn setengah aku dgn die ni, satu rship yg sungguh menguji kesabaran tp sgt besh. Tak ilang lagi dupdap di hati bile bertembung mata..ewah. Haha jiwang jap ek. Okok back to the story..since we were required by my big boss to arrive Penang before lunch, kitorang gagahkan diri la bgn pepagi buta and left Shah Alam at 6.30am. Awal tak hingatt..i only thought of dozing off most of the journey tp malangnya tak bole langsung bcoz kene melayan cik abg sorang yg tengah kejakunan, sesket kene layan pertanyaan die, pastu dlm dok benti nak beli buah nak segarkan mata die nak berak la pulok..aiyoo mcm layan budak kecik but most importantly I have to monitor his driving tau2 je la zone Perak ni is zone speed trap and roadblock. Nasib ler I informed him beforehand because on that day ada 2 roadblock and nasib tak kene tahan.
We arrived at my house around 11.30am, transferred our stuff to my dad’s car and off we went to Batu Feringghi at Park Royal Penang as my mum had already booked the rooms there for a one night stay (not a one night stand eh haha)
The speckies..muka skema je memasing
perasan kiut la tuu!
gue lagi kiut..hehehe
semangat amik gambo dlm kete..walaupun mata tu ya ampun tahap xleh nak bukak dah! While my dad drove, both of my parents were so enthusiastic to show him around mcm tour guide je..di sebelah kiri anda ialah..di sebelah kanan anda pula ialah hehe, we arrived just in d nick of time for Friday prayers, so jejaka² sume pegi ler masjid leaving me and my mum behind. Wah ni first time die p solat skali dgn my dad..i wonder how he felt? dup dap ka..huhu ntahla, I din ask him.
Our room at Park Royal
Excuse the plastic bag yaa..hehe this is the room that we stayed, my mum booked two rooms side by side. He slept together with my lil bro, imagine them conquering a bed each..ish jeles gile ok while I had to share rooms wif my parents..huhu, dengki tak dpt green light lagi muahaha. Tp papehal pon thanks a lot to my parents who sponsored us for our stay here. If not, we had to pay for one of the room but in the end, they ended up sponsoring. After we had lunch and all, in the evening we all lepaked at the beach front and swimming pool. My parents went off to haf their evening walks by the seaside leaving the three of us behind. I wanted to ride on the parasailing (alaa yg parachute yg kene bwk dgn motorboat tu) but he din wanna join me..last2 we took pictures je.
Saya Mieza, saya pulak Khairul
Pandai jugak adik aku amik gambo ni huhu
Bro and him..kiut!!
Picture wif no purpose..saje menggedik hehe
Sunset @ Feringghi Beach
At night, we had a buffet BBQ dinner at the hotel itself, again sponsored by my parents. It was supposed to be a hefty dinner supposedly wif its hefty price because when my family last came here there were tonnes of menu to choose from but bile dorang nak bwk kitorang dtg, tgk alahai ciputnya selection of menu..tp takpe, kitorang tak kesah pon. Ni pon dah considered mewah and meriah dah for us. Alhamdulillah
Happy faces dpt makan free..hehe slamber je amik gambo camni depan parents
Second day : 16/08/08
The next day before checking out, we spend most of our time again at the hotel itself. We played table tennis together, as usual la Mr Fiance nak tunjuk lagak yg die reti main la tu..eleh mcm la aku ni tak reti gak main. We also swam in the pool together (well not exactly swam la bcoz memasing tak reti berenang) haha tau berendam je. mmg bes mcm dak kecik je rasa while my mum just layankan je la kerenah kitorang. At first Mr Fiance mcm memalu nak masuk, katenye segan depan mak aku (ah poyo jek). I could at least float myself and swam to the other end of the pool without kicking too much of bubbles but die..being typical him yg tanak ngaku kalah masya allah melantun2 air abeh terpercik kat sume org..dahla badan dah bam2 bulat hehehe..dah nak sama cam dugong je.
Jom pretend dat we can actually swim! haha
Lepas dah puas jadi dak kecik, kitorang headed to USM, my parents did the same thing again, showed him the various landmarks around Penang whilst driving smp ke hospital tempat aku dilahirkan sume dorang bwk hehe. Aku ni dgn bangganya tunjuk SGGS! skolah aku la tuuu hehe. Mmg la nampak cam mende remeh je but I enjoyed it, he enjoyed it. If u must know, dat is exactly what he did wif me masa zaman kitorang baru nak kenal2, baru nak mengenali hati budi memasing..ewah jiwang balik dahh die slalue je bwk aku ronda area Klang tunjuk sekolah die kat mane, tempat lepak die kat mane..port2 mkn yg best ke ape ke..itu pasal gue skang dah terer sket area Klang thanks to him lor hehe..sampai org dah bleh kate Klang tu is my 2nd hometown la kire..so now I’m doing the same thing back to him, tunjuk die port2 kat Penang plak
Anyways..reason for going to USM because my cousin was having her convocation on that day and since she is flying off to Houston the following day for the next 4 months and won’t be seeing her for Raya this year…we made our time to meet up wif my aunt and her for her big day. Her bf was there wif her..haa so Mak Ngah bakal dpt menantu tak lamo lagi gak la tu hehe…
we now have a Geophysist (or however u spell it) in the family!!
Kazens unite!
can u spot her?
right after the ceremony, we headed back home..but rather than using the Penang Bridge to head home, we used the ferry..cam biasala bakal pak mertua nak tunjuk bakal menantu the final sightseeing before heading home..bakal menantu pun excited first time nak naik ferry hehe..
Wajib bergambo sebelum naik ferry
melayan feeling..bile plak la aku nak bwk family aku dtg cni plak yeee..
dah lawa dah feri nowadays..dulu buruk gileee
kalo dah namanya bekerja or pernah bekerja dgn shipping company, u will always go gaga over containers and vessels hehehe. Kawan² sekalian, dis is a feeder vessel yer ahaks.
smileeeeeeeeeeeeeee
reached home, played a round of badminton together, rode on my bro’s bicycle..he then played with football with my bro while I went inside and watched the Olympics. At night we had dinner outside, watched more Olympics, lepaked and dats it really..activity filled with fun and laughter. Everyone was in a relaxed mood, takyah nak control2…sembang mcm kitorang ni dah dah kawin…sangat bes. sangat sukeeee…
basically to sum everything up, everything was a blast thanks to my parents yg sanggup sponsor kami yg tak berkemampuan ni hehehe almaklumla dah tetengah bulan ni. Mekasih gak to my parents yg skang dah bleh menerima relationship kami dgn seadanya, dpt menerima die seadanya without any bantahan. Dulu masa awal2 perkenalan, we went through a lot as my dad weren’t really keen on him in the first place but look at us now, 2 years later alhamdulillah berkat kesabaran walaupun belum berumahtangga lagi but at least the idea of him to come down to Penang wif me and spend d weekend together wif my family was my dad’s idea..die yg nak bawak bakal menantu die jln2 hehe..aihh sejuk ati aku. Even masa kat perkarangan USM tu pon when we met up wif a few of my parents’ colleagues, dgn smgtnya my parents introduce to their frens their “bakal menantu”…sejuk ati lagi hahaha. Mmg i couldn’t stop smiling the whole weekend. Walaupun pipiku nampak tembam dlm gambo2 ni but I dun care..hehe, well at first I cared la mcm pelik je dh elok2 turun ke 46kg camne bleh tembam lagi muka ni..ish pelik betul but as I write my entry here, bile kenangkan balik what happened over these past few days, I’m very, very, very happy..! This is such a great way to celebrate our monthly anni..
Forever Love
Lepas raya ni….dah kene start full swing preparation for our wedding pulak..!
My Weekend
Last weekend was supposed to be a weekend without going to any shopping complexes and yup it turned out that way alright..
Memandangkan kami bakal close shop this weekend coz we’re going back to Penang, pepagi buta tu bawak la keteku pegi servis kat Perodua. Skang ni Mr Fiance dah ada member kat sana, so bleh dpt harga murah pastu tatau la bleh potong que ke tak but sejak kenal dgn Ayob ni, before anta kete, we can call him up tanye how much is his price, bwk kete terus p blakang and just leave it there. He will call us when the car is ready. Since die punya price tu bleh dikatakan murah la jugak compared to the actual Perodua’s price and kete aku ni dah mmg in desperate need to be washed, skali harung la suh dorang cuci skali kete aku. Wah berkilat you! mesti bapak aku pk, rajin anak aku basuh kete..hahaha.
Anyways dats not the point of the story here. Masa on the way nak pick up my car, tgh dlm kete Mr Fiance la ni kat Federal Highway tgh ari tuu tetibe POOOMMM cermin depan kete die meletup huhu. Tekejut jugak la coz cermin tu terus retak seribu. There was no indication that ada mende melantun kene cermin, nothing coz it was cracked the whole way. So my best guess was it shattered due to the heat, kete dah nazak dah tu, waiting time utk di let go. Huhu. Nak benti pun xleh coz kene amik kete aku gak kat Perodua so redah je la bwk kete tu terkedek2 ke Seksyen 15, nasib dah dlm 10min nak sampai dah. Gambo bwh tu yg kaler grey tu gambo cloud ye..bukan cermin tu pecah camtu, mmg retak abeh la. Bile tanye org Perodua tu pun dorang pun ckp because of heat. U see my dear, dun underestimate budak kecik ni hehe.
We had no other choice but to bring his car back to his house..coz adik ipar die tau kat mana nak carik kedai yg jual cermin kete yg murah and the adik ipar himself can fix it for him, so dah jimat duit tang tu gak. Terpaksa la detour our plans for that day and I had to trail his car back to his house (nasib la dressingku pada ari tu ok and my jeans were not that low huhu). Nak tunggu cermin tu pun berjam2..aih i think we waited there close to 2 hours dahla ptg tu ada appointment nak amik VS. Sementara kat umah die..ni la keje aku, melayan anak buah kesayangan die yang suke sgt amik gambo. Slamber je amik spek itam aku sarung kat muka die and sengeh sesiap. Aku ni tade la gemo bebeno layan dak kecik ni but dgn si Fid ni suke la tgk die, suke tgk muka noti die hehe. Skali tgk muka die mcm Pak Lang die kan? haha Pak Lang tu Mr Fiance ler..pastu mcm terharu la jugak family die dah gelarkan aku “Mak Lang” depan Fid ni..mcm erk dah dpt gelaran dah ke aku ni? tsktsk tua nya aku..
His mum : “Dah salam Mak Lang dah?”
Fid : “Blum” sambil sengeh2 tgk aku
cair duhh aku……….haha adik aku pon panggey aku “kakak” je tade special gelaran mcm along ke ape..so tetibe dpt gelaran Mak Lang ni mcm wahh syokkk haha.
The following day pun tade buat pape gak..lepak kat umah je. Mr Fiance pun bz jadi driver utk parents die balik kampung ada kenduri kawin and amik kepek sume so sementara tunggu die keje aku mmg melayan Olympic je la..bes gile. Khayal tak ingat. Aku ni kalo bab sukan ni jgn memain, sume mende aku layan huhu. But since Mr Fiance bwk laptop skali, we all lepak la jap kat Coffee Bean SACC Mall yesterday just to kill time together Wifi-ing.
kalo die dah pegang laptop tu..sah la surfing website Harley je
saya bosan..bukannya die nak layan pun saya yg kat tepi die ni..
tgk..amik gambo close up die pon die buat derk je [note to Dude : mekasih ye bagi baju ni kat die. Walaupun koleksi baju hitam die dah tak terkira dah ni,asyik² Harley, asyik² Harley but thanks eh skali skala tgk baju lain sket huhu]
disebabkan tade org nak melayan aku punya pasal..aku sengeh je ler sengsorang sampai kene tegur dgn Mr Fiance to stop taking pictures of myself. Haha lantak la skali skala jadi gedik.
Oooh lastly before I stop, here is the picture of the VS EDP Perfume that has just arrived, specially taken just for Liza. Lawa duh perfume set ni and sgt wangi, rugi aku tak amik for myself hehe. Here’s the picture for your viewing!
VS EDP PERFUME
